Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Happy Halloween!

Although Matty is much to little for Halloween, we had fun all the same.  We got this super cute outfit from one of my baby showers (we actually got 2 -- a newborn and a 0-3 months size.  He's way too big for the newborn one.)  He looked sooo cute in it, and it glows in the dark!  At the very least, Connor and I had a lot of fun.

Our cute little skeleton




Happy Halloween, everyone!

Sunday, October 28, 2012

One Month Old

It's hard to believe that it's already been 1 month since Matty was born.  It's probably been the hardest month of my life, but also the most rewarding by far.






We are crazy about this little boy.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

three weeks old


two weeks old

When do people with  newborns find time to blog?

Here's little Matty at 2 weeks old.  Isn't he cute?
At his 2 week checkup he measured 22.5 inches long, and weighed 8 lbs 15 oz.  He's in the 95th percentile for his height, and 55th for his weight.  But for his height and weight combined he's in the 5th.  He's tall and skinny!  I'm trying to get him to eat more, but he just falls asleep.  Occasionally he goes on a marathon eating spree, and all he wants to do is eat for what seems like hours.

He's a happy, healthy, beautiful little boy, and we are crazy in love with him and his cuteness.

Saturday, October 13, 2012

family fotos

Last Wednesday we had some family pictures taken.  They arrived in the mail today, and I love them.

Here are a few of my favs.












Many thanks to our wonderful photographer!

Saturday, October 6, 2012

1 week old...

...and cuter by the day.  I still don't know how this cute little thing came out of me 1 week ago.


Friday, October 5, 2012

Matthew's Birth Story


Let me preface this by saying that I wanted to have a different kind of birth.  Call me crazy, but I was hoping to have a natural, med-free birth.  Connor and I had taken HypnoBirthing classes to prepare, and we had prepared a birth plan for how we hoped things would go, and I really felt confident that barring any complications, I could have the birth experience that I hoped for.  

With that said…

On Friday, September 28th I had a doctors appointment at 10:30 am.  My ‘due date’ was 9/27 and since I had passed it my doctor wanted to do an ultrasound to make sure everything was okay with the baby.  My plan was to go into labor naturally, and if I didn’t then I would be induced at 42 weeks. 

During the ultrasound, the doctor noticed that the amniotic fluid was grainy.  Dr Farley told me that this can be a sign that the baby has passed meconium, which can be a sign that the baby is/was in distress.  Dr. Farley recommended that we induce, but he ultimately left it up to me.

Since Connor wasn’t able to come with me to the appointment, I called him from the doctor’s office to ask his opinion.  I called 3 times, no answer.  So I tried him at work.  Finally, I got a hold of him and we talked about what the doctor had said, and what we should do.  Ultimately, we decided to play it safe and to get induced.

I was really bummed because already a good portion of my birth plan had been thrown out the window.  I still wanted to have as natural a birth as possible, but I was unsure of how it would go.  I decided that I wanted to be able to enjoy the birth, and if I felt like I was suffering then I would have to reevaluate my plan.

I met Connor at home and we threw everything in the car (thank goodness I had packed everything weeks ago), and went to the hospital.  We were admitted at about 12:30 and at 1pm they broke my water.  The amniotic fluid was really cloudy, but it didn’t have meconium in it, thank goodness.  They said that the cloudiness of the fluid could be from vernix, or an infection in my uterus.  However, the fluid didn’t smell bad so they didn’t think it was an infection.

Before arriving at the hospital I was already dilated to a 4 and 60% effaced.  My contractions were coming, but not regularly.  They wanted them to be coming every 2 minutes, and they were coming every 2 to 4 minutes once they broke my water.  So, they started me on the lowest dose of pitocin.  My contractions were still coming every 2 to 4 minutes, so after a while they turned the dose up.

Let me add here that for the most part my nurses were very kind and mostly supportive.  I had 3 nurses throughout the labor and delivery.  My first nurse was very nice, however she told me that they legally have to ask how much pain I was in every 2 hours.  Since I wanted to do this naturally, I didn’t want to focus on the pain so I asked her if they could just use different wording and instead ask if I was uncomfortable?  She didn’t respond to that, but she didn’t ask me about pain either.  My second nurse kind of got moody with me when I asked her why the pitocin was getting turned up again.  As if I don’t have a right to know what’s being done to my body?  However, besides that she was really kind, friendly, and helpful.  The third nurse was great and I didn’t have any issues with her.

I had Connor grab my iPod and headphones out of my bag, and I started to listen to the some of the HypnoBirthing tracks that I had been practicing with.  This really worked great and I was able to stay relaxed and focused.

After a while, however, the surges started to get more intense, and I started to have back labor.  I was not prepared for back labor.  I asked Connor to rub my back and to do light touch massage, but it wasn’t helping.  I felt better when I would change position, but that would only last a few minutes.  Ultimately, I started to suffer through the labor, which is exactly what I said I did not want to do.  So, I asked for the epidural.  I was really disappointed that another part of my birth plan had been lost, but I felt like that’s what I had to do.

I did not like the epidural.  I had always heard people talk about how much of a relief it was to get the epidural, and I did not feel that way at all.  I wasn’t experiencing back labor anymore, for which I was grateful, but I felt disconnected from my body.  That’s not something I enjoyed, and hopefully not something I’ll have to experience again.

When Dr Farley came to check me again, he noticed that the baby was not positioned correctly.  He was facing my side instead of my back (this explains the back labor).  They positioned me a really weird way on the bed to try to get him to turn.  I was lying on my right side, with my left leg in the right leg stirrup.  (Can you picture it?)  Like I said, weird position.  However, I did start to feel more pressure, which they said was a good sign that the baby was turning, and I was dilating more.

During this time, I was trying to relax as much as possible.  I was very sleepy.  Connor and I watched some TV, and Jim Gaffigan on Netflix.  As 9pm rolled around my doctor came in again and checked me.  I was at a 9+ and he asked if I was ready to push.  I was surprised because I wasn’t at a solid 10, but I was ready to deliver my baby.

I started pushing.  In HypnoBirthing they teach you a different way to “push”, and I had been practicing that for months.  However, the nurse and doctor were instructing me to breathe/push their way.  Eventually, I started to do it their way.  I pushed for about an hour, and Matthew was born at 10:03pm, after only 9 hours of labor.  Not bad for my first baby!  The cord stopped pulsing and Connor cut the cord.  (One thing in my birth plan that stuck!)

Dr Farley did tell me that my pelvis is more flat than “normal” so that made it a little harder for Matthew to maneuver around.  The dr also said that if I hadn’t had an epidural I probably would have been very uncomfortable with the way the baby was positioned and the prolonged pushing.  Poor little Matthew’s head was a little swollen from all the pushing, but regardless he was just perfect.  He weighed in at 7 lbs 13 oz, and 20.5 inches long.  He is absolutely adorable and we are so in love with him.

I am disappointed that the birth didn’t go as I had hoped.  So many things in my birth plan had to change all at the last minute, but I am truly happy with how things turned out.  I have a happy, beautiful baby boy.  I was concerned that with the pitocin his heart rate might drop if the contractions got too intense for him, but he did great the whole time.  I feel like with the circumstances, I made the best decisions I could.

I do wonder how different things may have been had I had a midwife, as they are usually more hands off and willing to let things happen.  However, I really appreciate that Dr Farley was concerned about the baby and just wanted him to be born healthy.

So, to sum it all up, nothing went as planned.  I could literally go through my birth plan and there are probably 2 or 3 items that actually were carried through.  Everything else had to change at the last minute.  However, that’s how life goes.  I am glad that we had our ideal birth plan, and I’m glad that Connor and I were both open-minded enough to know that sometimes life doesn’t go as planned.  We have a healthy baby, and that’s what matters most.

Monday, October 1, 2012

Matthew Ryan

Matthew Ryan Griffith was born on September 28th at 10:03 pm.  He weighed 7 lbs 13 ozs, and measured 20.5 inches long.  We love him so much!




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